Introduction:
Florence Elizabeth Carmichael Adams was born in 1923 in the United States of America. Hailing from a family of southern migrants, her parents journeyed from Dillon, South Carolina, to Trenton, New Jersey, in search of better opportunities. Among eight siblings, she was the youngest girl but the fourth eldest overall.
It was within the walls of a dormitory central room, where men and women mingled freely, that Florence encountered the love of her life—a southern gentleman and US Army Veteran from Atlanta, Georgia. Their deep connection led to marriage in the late 1940s, and together, they raised two extraordinary Black daughters, each forging her own path as an intellectual maven and pioneer: one in the arts, the other in the sciences.
In addition to her maternal duties, Florence provided unwavering support for nearly four decades to a young man who married one of her daughters. Having lost his own mother at a tender age, he found solace and guidance in Florence’s nurturing embrace. With her encouragement, he embarked on a challenging journey to become a probate attorney, standing as the sole member of his immediate family to attend college.
Yet perhaps Florence’s greatest source of pride lies in her role as a grandmother. She cherishes her grandchildren—two former collegiate scholar-athletes who transitioned into successful careers as a researcher and an interior designer.
Dear Grandma Flo,
As I pen these words, my heart swells with love and admiration for you. You embody strength, resilience, and grace, and on this special day, I am compelled to honor the extraordinary life you’ve lived.
From the moment you entered this world, your spirit illuminated the lives of those around you. Your journey, from Millville, Cumberland County, to the hallowed halls of American University, speaks volumes about your perseverance and determination to overcome obstacles.
I fondly recall the stories you’ve shared about your time at Millville High School, where you excelled despite facing skepticism and prejudice. Your laughter in the face of adversity and your unwavering spirit serve as a beacon of hope for us all.
As you navigated the challenges of discrimination firsthand, your resilience only grew stronger. From accompanying your mother to job interviews where they were not hiring if you were Colored to finding your own path at the Quartermaster Depot in South Philadelphia and the Pentagon, you never faltered in your commitment to uplift others.
Your transition from clerical work to teaching is a testament to your desire to make a difference in the lives of others. Graduating from American University in 1963, with President John F. Kennedy delivering the commencement address, was a milestone that words cannot accurately define.
But your greatest achievement lies in the love and legacy you built with the man of your dreams—a Morehouse man from Atlanta. Together, you raised two remarkable daughters who have made their mark on the world. And as a grandmother, you’ve showered us with love and wisdom, nurturing our dreams and inspiring us to reach for the stars.
As I reflect on your journey, Grandma Flo, I am filled with gratitude for the love and guidance you’ve bestowed upon us. Your resilience, grace, and unwavering determination continue to inspire me every day, and I am blessed to have you in my life.
Happy International Women’s Day, Grandma Flo. May your light continue to shine brightly, guiding us all on the path to greatness.
With all my love,
Jason
PS:
Grandma, as I conclude this letter, I am struck by the realization of how fortunate I am to still hear your voice whenever I want. It’s the only way I know what angels sound like. Your presence in my life is a constant source of comfort and inspiration, and I am grateful beyond words for the privilege of being your grandson.
I hope you never forget this.
Jason Campbell 